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Hi Subscriber First Name You know those days when it feels like the universe is handing out lemons, and you’re getting pelted with them like it’s some dodgeball game? Been there, dodged that. :) But in part 4 of my saga, I’m sharing how I took those lemons, made a killer margarita, and built a coaching business that rocks harder than your grandma’s knitting circle on bingo night. Warning: We’re turning turbulence into triumph—prepare for a ride, and maybe grab a tissue. Let me paint the scene: I’m in the operating room, feeling like the Beyoncé of scrubs, ready to save lives and look good doing it. The bullies came in, green with envy (seriously, I should’ve handed them some anti-nausea meds), and they started making my life a living episode of Mean Girls. OR wasn’t just about cutting through tissue; it was about throwing knives that came from colleagues with bigger egos than talent. I decided to bet on myself like I was holding a winning lottery ticket in the game of life. Bullies, only have power if you let them borrow your batteries. I took mine back, and let’s just say, they’re still looking for the charger. But let’s get real for a second. The journey from bullied to badass wasn’t exactly a walk in the park. It was more like a crawl through a battlefield while throwing metaphorical landmines and actual scalpels. Here’s what I learned while I was down in the trenches: People will be jealous of what you have—But no one ever tells you what it takes to get there. And let’s be real—half of them would rather binge-watch reality TV than actually try. Me Betting on yourself isn’t just for some. When you put your chips on YOU and back it up with action, you become a force of nature. The people in your corner are EVERYTHING—they’re your cheerleaders, your therapists, and sometimes your impromptu bartenders. When life -punches you, they’re the ones who help you back up, dust you off, and hand you a cocktail. Now, what should you do instead of letting life knock you down like a toddler? Cling to your values like they’re the last piece of chocolate in the box. Your integrity and your tribe are what keep you standing when everything else is crumbling like a poorly made soufflé. Love your people like they’re made of gold. Seriously, these folks are your lifeline, your sanity-savers. Treat them right, and they’ll be there when the going gets tough—or when you need someone to laugh at your jokes. Let’s lay it all on the table: I stand for betting on myself because when you do that, you’re basically unstoppable. And also, this is one hill I’ll gladly defend with a megaphone in one hand and a margarita in the other. And what do I NOT agree with in my industry as a nurse? Oh, let me spill the tea. ⚪️I don’t agree with the toxic culture that lets bullies play queen bee. ⚪️I don’t agree with the idea that kindness is a weakness. Newsflash: It takes serious guts to be kind when everyone else is throwing shade like it’s confetti.🎊 So, tell me—what do YOU stand for? And what’s the one thing in your industry that makes you want to flip a table? Let’s dish in the replies—because here’s the truth: Bullies only win if you hand them the trophy. I snatched mine back, and now I’m rocking it like a crown.👑 No longer the bullied nurse, I’m now the confident, unstoppable leader you see today. And guess what? You can be too. Want to know how? Stick around for part 5, where I’ll reveal the secrets to turning pain into serious profit. Until next time, Mari McCann
Confidence, Leadership & Results Coach P.S. Let’s chat! Whether you want to share your thoughts or vent about something that’s been bugging you, I’m here for it :). Whether you’ve got praise, a rant, or something in between, I’d love to hear from you. Drop me a DM on Facebook or Instagram, or share your thoughts in our Private Facebook Group. I can’t wait to hear from you.
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